

Meet Ela
People Openly Searching for Happiness

Hi, I'm Ela, Your certified matchmaker and singles coach with a decade-old passion for helping lovebirds solve problems that arise while dating. When I discovered my special knack for matchmaking and the true need in today's society to reintroduce the power of human interactions, as well as helping people get from behind the phone & out of their own way when in the dating world, I wanted to give it my all. I said goodbye to the real estate industry and delved full time into matchmaking.
My passion for understanding love & spreading love is what defines me, but my true power to connect with people making them see love and life in a way that eases the fear of falling in or out of love makes me anything but the traditional matchmaker.
Why hire me you ask?
with me as your personal matchmaker you will;
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Reduce the time needed to find potential partners we vet each member to determine compatibility.
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I do all the vetting so when you meet your date you can assure that you are compatible.
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Discuss each date afterward to give honest feedback to overcome obstacles to achieve dating success.
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I help you get over the hurdles that have stopped you from dating in the past
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Unlimited introductions for Clients
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100% honest feedback
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Complete Privacy during the process
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An honest wingman/woman (like a Best friend but certified and professional)
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So many more perks to discuss during your consultation
I can't wait to assist you in your self-love journey while we work to find the romantic relationship you seek.
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Love isn't hard to find you're just looking in all the wrong places. - Ela
Testimonials
Calvin W.
It was six years since my last serious relationship. As a successful business owner and not a very social person, I find it difficult to make meaningful connections. I tried online dating but that has not worked for me.
I relocated to Chicago about three months ago and a friend suggested Posh. I scheduled a meeting with Ela. She took the time to find out things about me, she coached me and through one of her great events and some very thoughtfully planned matching provided me a very natural environment to meet Samantha. Samantha is intelligent, witty, charming and beautiful and needles to say very quickly becoming my next best friend and loving companion. Thanks Ela, you and Posh are the best!



Derrick A.
To accurately communicate the impact of Ela's guidance on my Single journey & love life is impossible but here is my best effort:
I was recently faced with the challenge of going through my very first heartbreak as a 39 year old Man after my relationship of 15 years ended. Any heartache, from what I’ve heard, is quite awful, but having to go through one without the benefit of prior experience seemed particularly rough. I couldn’t see how I would get through it since I never had before.
Luckily for me, the universe sent me Ela. She was somehow able to understand exactly what I was feeling and give me direction without ever making me feel silly or week for being stuck.
She never trivialized my pain but she also never let me off the hook for my part I played in my own situation.
She is both motivating and empathetic. She makes the truth your friend and helps you see your own way forward. In my moments of weakness she was there to remind me of my strength.
Today, I am a stronger more honest and aware individual than I was before I had the benefit of Ela’s coaching. As a result I am able to receive love and support from a new mate in my life.
I will always continue to go to Ela for sound advice and help translating the confusing signals that the world can throw at you from outside and from within!
I LOVE the fact that she checks in on me from time to time !
No price can be put on the happiness and peace I have attained as a result of my consultations with Ela. I have recommended her to several of my closest friends struggling through different aspects of their relationships. I’d recommend a consultation to anyone struggling to understand the complexities of love and relationships. She will make it so simple and give you the confidence to do the things that seemed impossibly difficult before.
The savings in therapy alone makes this the most worthwhile investment I have made in myself.
Call her now!



Brittany S.
Posh Alliance has helped my life in such a dynamic way. Ela is someone you can trust with your relationship and life's immediate future with. She provides transparency, clarity and effective resolutions. She is very honest and will let you know what you’re in for and what to expect. This way you don’t feel uncomfortable or unprepared. At first I was scared to take the risk and open up to someone because i didn’t think I would find love again. I was wrong! Today I’m truly in love and the happiest I’ve ever been. The glow is real! I couldn’t have done it without Posh Alliance. Thank you Ela~



Katie S.
Ela is awesome to work with! She is not only a match maker she’s a wonderful, relatable person as well. What I appreciate the most about the service Ela provides is she listens to her clients to understand what it is they’re truly looking for. Its not just about finding the perfect match, but also identifying and acknowledging what you need and deserve in a long-term happy relationship. Her guidance, coaching skills, and relationship knowledge are priceless. If you’re the type of person that just doesn’t have time to go on bad dates or just unwilling or unable to navigate the online dating scene, Posh Alliance is for you. They have a dedicated team that helps services their clients from A to Z and attract members that are attractive, active, and fun! Ideal for those ready for LOVE! Ela’s team is professional and driven to find their clients love. Ela is like you have a sixth sense! She says what I am feeling or thinking before I am even able to articulate it! Whether or not your male or female, I would highly recommend the Posh Alliance.



Dana H.
Ela has been a great listener and the voice of reason when it comes to decision making in my relationship with self or in pursuit of a relationship with someone else.
Having her there holding me accountable is good reminder of the goals I had set and the plan to keep those values and goal without altering them to just be in a relationship.
she made me realize that even though its easier to change yourself to try to fit what you think someone wants, its the worst habit i created. she worked with me on sticking with my values and finding someone who is real for me. Doing so has made me much happier in relationships and being single.



